Save
the ribbons and bows that grace the
gifts you receive at your bridal shower
to create an artistic bouquet that you
carry during the wedding rehearsal.
Remember that each ribbon that breaks as
you open the packages is said to
represent the birth of a child.
Plant
a seedling on the morning of or the day
before your wedding to grow along with
your marriage. If roses are one of your
favorite blooms, you might choose the
plant that is always associated with
love.
Future
wealth and good fortune for newlyweds is
said to be inspired by slipping a lucky
sixpence into one of the shoes you wear
for your wedding. The sixpence first
became known as a lucky coin when
introduced by Edward VI of England in
1551, and later became part of wedding
tradition with brides in the Victorian
era.
Brides
are encouraged to include
"something blue" among their
wedding finery to bolster the favorite
old line, "Those who dress in blue
have lovers true." Blue has long
been considered the color of fidelity,
purity and love, and was first worn in
ribbons by early Jewish brides.
Carry
a handkerchief passed down through
generations of your family to begin your
own tradition with a lacy square that
you select. A bride who cries on her
wedding day is never supposed to shed
another tear about her marriage.
The
custom of a bride being given away
originated with the sale of the bride by
the father to the prospective groom.
Today, the tradition is considered a
sign of the father entrusting his
beloved daughter to the care of her
husband-to-be.
The
ceremonial kiss that closes the marriage
ceremony is considered symbolic of an
exchange of spirit as each new spouse
breathes a part of the soul into the
other.
The
celebration of marriage is heightened by
the offering of toasts to the bride and
groom. Ancient French custom encouraged
the newlyweds to drink the reception
toast from a special cup that was
typically passed among family
generations. Today, couples are given
special toasting goblets for their
reception.
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Ask
your pastry chef to enclose bridesmaids'
charms -- one for each single woman in
the wedding party -- attached to ribbons
placed in the frosting of your wedding
cake. Before you and your husband cut
the first slice of cake, the bridesmaids
are called to pull the ribbons, each
claiming a token that holds the promise
of her future -- hope, love, good luck,
next to marry or old maid.
As
one of the first domestic acts of your
marriage, you and your groom will cut
the wedding cake before it is served to
guests at the reception. The groom
traditionally places his hand over yours
as a symbol of his desire to take care
of you. It is also said that the bride's
hand must be the first to cut the cake.
After
cutting the cake, the newlyweds often
share a taste by feeding each other. The
ancient Romans believed that the joint
partaking of the cake created a magic
bonding. The sweetness symbolized the
couples' future happiness and the grain
held the promise of a fruitful union.
The
top layer of the wedding cake is
customarily taken home and frozen by the
bride and groom, who will share it as
they celebrate their first anniversary.
It is believed that a cake that lasts a
year is the guarantee of a long
marriage.
Before
leaving to change for the honeymoon
getaway, the bride tosses her bouquet to
an assembly of unmarried bridesmaids and
friends. The lucky recipient is expected
to be the next one to marry.
After
the bride throws her bouquet, the groom
removes the garter she has worn on her
leg and tosses to an assembly of
bachelor groomsmen and friends. The one
lucky enough to snag the garter should
also prepare to marry next.
The
custom of showering newlyweds with rice
as they depart for the honeymoon
anticipates the fruitfulness of the
union. Today, birdseed, confetti, or
dried flowers have replaced the rice.
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